Come Knocking Making Decisions Easily
Everything comes into our lives
for a reason. Feng Shui teaches us that nothing happens by accident,
there are no coincidences and you always meet the people you
are supposed to meet.
When opportunities come knocking,
it is wise to be there to answer the door. While some don't appear
to be anything particularly interesting or even inviting, based
on the fact that you are working with the laws of attraction,
it is always wise to look into something without just turning
Investigate it further. Things
most certainly are not always what they appear. In our hurried,
sometimes scattered lives, we often don't stop to think things
through well enough to make an informed decision. It is always
wise to sleep on a decision, large or small; even a small decision
can later prove to have made a profound impact on your life.
Oftentimes, as well, a seemingly
"rational" decision may not come to you. These are
truly the times to go with your instincts; we have all access
to these wonderful instincts, our "gut" feelings, but
unfortunately fail to follow them.
No one ever knows where the next
door will lead or the next bump in the road will take us. Wonderful
opportunities we may have looked right passed may have also caused
us to miss meeting a certain person, a lost business connection
or an activity we may well have enjoyed.
Ask yourself if you are unconsciously
putting up barriers. We have to be in the state of "allowance"
to invite everything into our lives. Knowing that they are there
for a reason might be a tool in determining your ultimate decision.
How can you know what to do when you simply don't KNOW what to
do? Here are some ideas that might help you along.
Some people meditate regularly,
others not at all. Meditation is nothing more then a deep state
of reaction, when you are not thinking of anything at all and
have nothing inside to "clutter" your head and confuse
an already overworked brain. Instead of trying so hard to focus
on an answer to a dilemma we are facing, try allowing the answer
to just come to you.
Another way to accomplish this
is to think about the issue just before bedtime. And then let
it go for the night. Whoever said you shouldn't make a big decision
without sleeping on it was 100% correct. You can often wake up,
knowing what to do; more importantly then that, you'll wake up
without doubts. Later on the shoulda, woulda, coulda's can't
bother you as we all seem to always second guess our decisions.
Taking a walk can clear your
head as well. Spending time outdoors with nature for some of
us is a state of allowing thoughts, decisions and energy to just
flow. Since we are connected to everything by energy, the outdoor
energy of plants and tress, birds and animals is essential to
our well being. Some of us prefer a more tranquil setting such
as the beach. If at all possible, spend some time outdoors.
Also, remember to pray. If your
thoughts are focused, your intentions clear and mindful, it doesn't
matter who or what you choose to pray to. Prayers are heard whether
by God, Buddha, Source Energy or The Universe. There is a power
in prayer and also a releasing of things to a higher power that
will help you find your answers and your direction; you won't
have to worry about a possible missed opportunity again.