You don't need to worry about
your daughter's expenses. I understand being a parent you want
to help out but if they are working adults it's not your responsibility.
They need to be responsible with their money and save back money
each month to cover what their insurance won't . If that means
cutting the cell phone, eating out or whatever then that's their
responsibility to do it. If you are paying for your own stuff
then start living below your means ASAP and try and get that
debt paid off. It's not always easy or fun but it sounds like
you need to worry about your expenses and not theirs right now.
I'm not saying to be unreasonable.
If they get $50,000 in medical expenses and need to live with
you or whatever to pay it off, of course help them out if you
can. But if it's minor stuff then let them take care of it.
Susan: Thanks so much. Sometimes
we answer our own problems when we put pen to paper and it jumps
right back at us! I will always be there for my kids; however,
I want them to grow up and become accountable and learn from
their mistakes and life, etc.