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I Don't Have Enough Time
By Wendy Hearn
How often do you hear yourself
saying you don't have enough time? Even if you're not saying
it out loud, I bet you think it. "I wish I had more time"
or "There's never enough hours in a day" are statements
voiced every day by most people. It's a fact of life that there
just isn't enough time. There never has been and never will be
more than 24 hours in each day. So, why can some people achieve
more in less time? I suggest one of the reasons is attitude of
mind.
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"The greatest revolution
in our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing
the inner attitude of their minds, can change the outer aspects
of their lives". Author and Philosopher, William James.
While you have the attitude of
mind that you don't have enough time, your actions will support
this. When you approach things with the attitude that you don't
have enough time, whether true or not, you'll find this to be
so. What you think will be revealed in your life. You can however
choose to change your attitude of mind. People who feel they've
enough time to do what they want and time doesn't rule their
lives, have mastered this attitude change.
Telling yourself you don't have
enough time can be purely an excuse. It's often easier to say
there isn't enough time than to see what this excuse is covering
up. It may be concealing the fact that you aren't willing to
think it through further, you may not know or be willing to communicate
the real reason, or the excuse of not having enough time just
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Using time as an excuse in this
way often leaves us stuck; it doesn't open up the opportunity
to explore what you can do about it. Let's take the example of
Colin who says he doesn't have enough time to spend with his
family. First, it may be easier for him to stick with his excuse
than to look at how much time he wants to spend with his family,
and consider what would they be doing, sharing, experiencing,
learning. If he starts to look at this aspect, this may require
him to change and for most people, change feels scary.
Saying "I don't have enough
time" is an easier option. If Colin is totally honest with
himself, he may find he doesn't want to spend time with his family
doing certain things and for whatever reason, feels unable to
tell them this. Not having enough time is an acceptable excuse
for most people nowadays. However, you need to be aware that
this may be keeping you stuck in many areas of your life and
business. This excuse of not having enough time stops you from
exploring opportunities. It's also a way to keep busy and really
believe you don't have enough time. The mental energy that's
used up in thinking about not having enough time, could be used
to free up extra time. When you're totally focused on the task
you're doing, you'll achieve things much more quickly. Focused
attention allows us to achieve more. As I mentioned earlier,
it's your attitude of mind that counts here and when you start
thinking "I have more than enough time for all I want to
do", you start opening up the possibilities. This attitude
allows you to focus and not waste time. It also puts you into
a frame of mind so that you look for ways to find this time.
When you approach a task with the attitude of having more than
enough time for everything else in your life, the task is likely
to be completed much more quickly because your attention is focused
and less thought is wasted.
When you hear yourself say "I
don't have enough time", I encourage you to stop and reflect
for a few seconds to consider what really lies behind this excuse.
Then turn it around to "I have more than enough time"
and see what that allows you to do. |