- A Short Memory Course
- How To Remember Names
You just called the TV repair
shop and the voice on the other end of the line tells you "this
is Don Smith". About 5 minutes later you tell your wife
that "this guy" will be out to fix the TV in the morning.
You can't think of his name although you know he mentioned it
on the phone.
This happens all the time to
just about any of us unless we have learned to concentrate and
implant the name in our memory right at the time we hear it.
To do this you first must make a habit of repeating the name
back to the person. This action will remind you to store the
name in your "Memory banks" each time you hear someone's
name, and, within a matter of a short time the "repeating"
process can be discontinued.
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When you meet someone in person
use the same procedure, and in addition, visualize something
different, unusual from the ordinary, or "ridiculous"
about their appearance, position, or actions that "ties
in" with their name. You may have to put the descriptive
information on one side of a card or piece of paper and the name
on the other side for a while until it is embedded in your memory
permanently. Look at it repeatedly, see the "picture"
in your mind's eye as you look at the name, or when you see the
name visualize the "picture" you have assigned to the
name.
Getting this system to work will
require certain changes in your thinking and it may take several
days or several weeks to become proficient. After all, you have
developed a "bad Habit" over a period of many years
and it is difficult to turn it around overnight. |
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This method also works with anything
else work remembering, not just names. When you have occasion
to remember something, jot it down and incorporate it into your
list . . . No complicated formula . . . Just a system that works
with a little concentration.
How To Remember Anything!
As mentioned above a person may
train their memory by associating names with specific illustrations.
This works just as well with written information.
There are several key words or
a key thought in each paragraph of printed matter that can be
associated with an illogical or ridiculous illustration. It is
much easier to remember and recall ridiculous associations than
it is to recall normal and uneventful relationships.
As you proceed through any text choose one or several key words
or key thoughts from each subject and relate the same to a ridiculous
cartoon or illustration. Actually "see" it in your
minds eye as it relates to the key word or key thought.
When you have occasion to remember
a particular matter, the "picture" should automatically
appear to you and the entire thought should be recalled. Be sure
to SEE the ridiculous picture associated with the printed matter
you wish to recall.
As you proceed through a book,
practice seeing a picture and relate it to the key words or the
main thought of the written material. This method of learning
should improve your ability to retain what you read. With sufficient
"practice" using this method, many individuals will
be able to develop a "photo-Type" memory.
The Key to this memory system
is to "see" the picture" in your "mind's
eye". After you have practiced and mastered the system and
are able to get instant flashback recall you should be able to
read most any text material and visualize ridiculous pictures
to associate with the thoughts expressed in the printed materials.
We suggest you prove this system
to yourself. As you read the first several pages of information,
"see" a picture related to the words or thought. It
may be rather difficult to "see" at first but by constant
effort and concentration amazing progress can be made. When you
have seen the picture, just go on reading the following subject
matter and repeat the process. Don't be concerned that you will
forget the prior subjects! They should remain imprinted on your
mind and recalled later, instantaneously and clearly.
After you have read several pages,
recall the first few "mind-pictures". If you originally
"saw" the picture as related to the key thought of
the printed material, you should remember the basic information.
Try it! It's interesting! After
you have mastered this learning system, it should be easy to
file various programs away in your memory and recall them as
needed to progress in your search for success.
Memory And Public Speaking
Tips!
The same system mentioned on
the previous page may be used to memorize a speech by linking
a series of thoughts to a series of ridiculous pictures in sequence.
Proper preparation of your speech
is half the battle. Know you subject thoroughly then make an
outline for the introduction, main body and conclusion. Start
your speech with something to startle your audience into complete
attention such as a weird statement or funny happening.
In presenting the main body of
your speech get the confidence of your audience by letting them
know you know your subject very well. Get your points across
without argument.
In making your conclusion you
can briefly sum up what you have just stated then end with a
big bang; recommending action your audience should take or suggesting
they change their viewpoint on the subject etc.; finalize with
a joke that fits the circumstances, or powerful word pictures
they will remember after they leave the meeting.
Make your outline in large print
with plenty of space between lines so you will be able to look
up without losing your place on the sheets. Rely on your memory
for the most important points, including the opening and closing
lines.
Practice your speech with a tape
recorder and in front of a mirror before the meeting. Work out
any apparent speaking problems or things that don't sound just
right. Know what you are going to do with your hands and determine
the better body movements to go with your personality. Continually
make eye contact back and forth across the room.
Take time to think before answering
questions. If you don't have the answer, ask another question,
refer it to someone else better qualified to answer, answer in
general terms, or change the subject (like politicians do) complimenting
the person asking the "impossible" question, or by
telling a "clean" joke. |