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Don't try telling that to your kids,
though.
Instead, encourage them to build
a tree house or other kind of outdoor fort. All they need are
some wooden boards, a few two by fours, some nails and a couple
of hammers. Of course, you have to use your good judgment about
how much of the job they can handle on their own and how much
adult supervision you need to provide for the project.
Remember that you don't want
them to rush through this. The whole point is to keep them busy
so you can catch up on your Remembrance of Things Past in that
hammock. Have them start with drawing a plan and sketching out
exactly how they'll build the tree house. Then, have them make
a list of supplies they need, and give them an air-conditioned
lift to the hardware store.
While we all have an idyllic idea of
joyous, capable children frolicking in the yard to build their
own tree house, most likely they'll need some help from grown
up quarters. You need to help them figure out what kinds of materials
they need, what they can do about protecting the fort from the
weather, and how to prevent damage to the trees.
Much of this help can be found
by looking through some reference materials. There are several
good books on the shelves this summer about building tree houses,
including Treehouses You can Actually Build and Treehouses, Huts
and Forts by David and Jeanie Stiles, and Home Tree Home: Principles
of Treehouse Construction and Other Tall Tales by Peter Nelson
and Gerry Hadden.
Even if there aren't a lot of
trees around your property, the kids can still construct a fort
of some kind, using the side of a big rock outcropping for one
wall, or fashioning a small hut in the yard. Looking through
a few books on the subject will help you and the kids come up
with creative ideas of how you can work with what you have.
Make sure that once the place
is built, you stay out. Let the kids decorate it as they see
fit; the more control they have over it, the more they'll feel
it is their own special place, and the more peace and quiet you'll
have in that hammock. And then, when you can't stand it anymore,
you can always lure them back with the promise of lemonade and
ice cream.
© Copyright 2002 Sheffield
School Of Interior Design
Photo Credits: www.stilesdesigns.com
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