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Good feng shui often requires
making wise decisions based on your specific circumstances, rather
than blinding following an ideal rule. The feng shui rule for
storing things under your bed is "don't do it." But
for those who live in small homes every inch of possible storage
space is precious. If you are faced with cluttering up some other
area of your home with stuff that otherwise might be put under
the bed, how do you decide what to do?
My preference as a feng shui
professional is to keep the more visible, frequently used areas
of the home uncluttered. If that means storing some things under
the bed, so be it, as long as it is done thoughtfully and appropriately.
There are two reasons why your
bed is so important in feng shui. The first is the principle
of proximity, which states that the closer something is to you
the stronger its effect will be. The second is the principle
of duration, which means that the longer you are exposed to a
particular influence the stronger its effect will be.
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If we were getting our eight
full hours of sleep every night, we'd be spending a third of
our lives in bed. Even with long days and not enough sleep, the
average person probably spends 25% or more of his or her time
in bed. Keeping the factors of proximity and duration in mind,
this means that anything that is close to you while you sleep
will have a strong effect on you, either physically or symbolically.
Since you are probably well protected
from below by a nice thick mattress, whatever you've got stashed
beneath your bed isn't likely to be directly harmful. However,
in feng shui the symbolic energy of an object or image is just
as important as whatever literal impact it may have. |
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However, in feng shui the symbolic
energy of an object or image is just as important as whatever
literal impact it may have. If you are using your underbed area
for storage, take a moment to think about the implications of
whatever is down there, especially if you haven't been sleeping
well lately. If you don't remember what you've stashed under
your bed, it's time to take another look.
Here are some things that
you ought to find another place for:
Shoes under the bed can keep
you "running around" all night even when you are sound
asleep. No matter how many hours of sleep you get, you may never
feel well rested.
Exercise gear, workout clothes,
and sports equipment are also less than relaxing. Unless you
want to feel like you're "going nowhere fast" in life,
don't store your treadmill, rowing machine, aerobic step under
the bed. Tennis rackets (or other gear for competitive sports)
can bring a competitive, adversarial energy to your romantic
relationships. It's best not to have any kind of exercise or
sports equipment in the bedroom at all if you can find another
place for it.
Books and work or school papers
can have an intellectually stimulating effect; if you have trouble
turning your mind-chatter off so you can fall asleep at night,
make sure you are not sleeping on top of a lot of information.
Plus, chances are good that if you're keeping that stuff under
the bed it probably isn't at all current, so all that old information
is also energetically holding you in the past.
Guns and knives. I really hope
you don't feel the need to have these in your house at all. All
that potential violence is not conducive to a good night's sleep,
no matter how "safe" it may make you feel. A feng shui
friend once told me she'd consulted for a guy who collected knives,
and who kept that collection under his bed. No wonder he complained
of a long string of failed relationships! Regardless of any other
qualities he may or may not have had, that's a lot of cutting
chi underlying what should be a place for romantic connection.
These examples should give you
an idea of the sort of potentially disruptive effect the stuff
under your bed can have. If you must use the under-bed space
for storage, reserve it for soft, cuddly items like extra bedding
or your winter sweaters.
You may even find a good use
for that space by placing something with positive symbolic meaning
there, so you can take conscious advantage of the proximity and
duration effect. For example, laying a mirror face up under the
bed is a recommended feng shui sure for insomnia; symbolically
the mirror reflects the bed "downward" thus drawing
into a deep, restful sleep. For a child who is frightened of
imaginary monsters under the bed, placing a super-tough-guy action
figure under there could provide some important protection and
security.
A feng shui client recently asked
if it was okay to keep her empty suitcases under the bed. If
you enjoy traveling and want to do more of it, then having the
luggage under the bed may help to encourage that. Inside the
suitcases you can put guidebooks, photos, travel accessories,
and other items related to the places where you'd like to go.
For example, if you would love to take a trip to Paris put a
guidebook to the city, a French-English phrase book, and a photo
of the Eiffel Tower in an empty suitcase under your bed. Add
some French currency or traveler's checks for the future trip.
The suitcase and its contents is now a feng shui activation to
help make your travel dreams come true.
On the other hand, if you've
been traveling a lot lately and would like to stay home for a
change, then I definitely recommend finding some other place
to keep your luggage. If you absolutely, positively have no alternative
to keeping suitcases under the bed -- and you really want a break
from travel -- put a rock in each one and cover them with a blanket,
to help them settle in for a long rest and to keep you grounded
at home.
(c) copyright 2004 Stephanie
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