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Is It Time For A Change?
By Wendy Hearn
There are times when a major
change is called for whether in your personal life, or in your
work and business. It may be that this change has been creeping
up on you slowly or something has happened that made you sit
up sharply and take notice.
At the point of deciding to make
a major change, your commitment level is probably high. Possibly
you have a couple of ideas of what you can do or other people
share their ideas and thoughts with you. So you start 'trying'
out some of these ideas.
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After all, you reason that if
they worked for others then they're likely to work for you. As
you start to 'try' out a couple of these ideas you may see some
changes and improvements, albeit small. It's at this point that
it's easy to settle for this being enough and your commitment
level drops because some of the pain that caused you to choose
to make changes has been eased.
However, this is often only papering
over the cracks and doesn't bring the change you really wanted.
When you paper over the cracks, you may soon find yourself back
at square one and wondering why.
This is fine if you choose to
do this but I encourage you to be clear that you're only choosing
to make temporary changes. Many people go for this choice because
it seems quick and easy. You've found a couple of things to try
and this will do for now. |
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If however you decide that you really
do want to make a major change, then you're going to need to
give it some thought and develop strategies for an overall game
plan that will last. It will take longer to start with, but the
right strategies are more likely to give you permanent results
than a quick fix. Using strategies maximises what you do rather
than just doing a couple of things that may be scattered.
If you're ready to develop a
game plan for the changes you want, what do you need to consider?
If you know what changes you want to make, you first need to
discover what the root cause of the problem is and then come
up with solutions that will be more permanent.
However, let's say that you know
or have a gut feeling that there need to be changes, but you're
not quite sure what. I invite you to consider the following areas
and as you work through them, you'll gain clarity about any changes
needed.
If you've not discovered or defined
these before, then that's your starting point. If you know about
these, then they may need updating or you may need to connect
with them at a deeper level.
- Your vision, mission and purpose
- Your values
- Your strengths, talents and
abilities
- Opportunities
- The work you're drawn to doing,
ideally
- Whom you want to work with and
spend time with.
- Ideal, life, career or business
- Resources.
I encourage you to think about
and be with all these items until you have the clarity needed
to know the change you want. Making these changes will then be
more natural for you because you will have connected with what
you truly want. |